习惯了离开家乡独自生活。
习惯了自己的问题自己解决的方式。
习惯，回到家后，
拿着喜欢的书籍杂志，躺在床上静静的享受私人空间……
习惯，在失落的时候，
拿着手机，按着心情简讯，
send给一些特定的人……
习惯，每天的生活都依照着定律旋转，
工作，吃饭，逛街，发白日梦……
** 虽然我的朋友告诉我，这是傻猪的生活。 但是，笨猴子，我只做我喜欢的 =)
习惯是一件很可怕的事情，
如果有一天没办法再做“习惯”， 那…将会如何？？
再养成另一种习惯？
或是遗忘…？
最近看了一本书，《幸福の答案》，很爱里面的一段话……
L: 代表listen，是听。
爱就是要无条件，无偏见的倾听对方的需求。
O : 代表overlook，是宽恕。
爱就是仁慈的对待，宽恕对方的缺点与错误，并找出对方的优点和长处。
V : 代表voice，是声音。
爱就是要经常表达欣赏与感激，真诚的鼓励，悦耳的赞美。
E : 代表effort，是努力。
爱需要不断的努力，付出更多的时间，去灌溉属于爱的良田。
是啊！当两人相爱时，应该全心全意去爱，不要有所保留；万一不能爱了，也不用伤心难过，至少曾经爱过……
很爱在夜深人静时听光良的歌，想着一个只属于我和他故事……
实在找不出特别适合的言语能形容那种心情，一份平静，几缕思绪荡漾，
或许，就是那种被拥抱的感觉吧，暖暖的，略带用力的…深深的牵动思念的心
***都是你***
谁改变了我的世界
没有方向没有日夜
我看着天这一刻在想你
是否会对我一样思念
你曾说我们有一个梦
等到那天我们来实现
我望着天在心中默默念
下一秒你出现在眼前
想念的心装满的都是你
我的钢琴弹奏的都是你
我的日记写满的都是你的名
才发现又另一个黎明
你曾说我们有一个梦
等到那天我们来实现
我望着天在心中默默念
下一秒你出现在眼前
想念的心装满的都是你
我的钢琴弹奏的都是你
我的日记写满的都是你的名
才发现又另一个黎明
我的日记写满的都是你的名
才发现又另一个黎明
这是我对你爱的累积
以为有了翅膀, 就会变成一只鸟;
以为变成鸟之后, 就可以拥有自由.
而今,拥有了期盼的翅膀,
却只能在小小的空间里, 飞翔.遗失了自由.
原来,自己还是搞不懂,
是想要翅膀,飞翔,或是自由,
还是只要一种追求飞翔的感觉.
Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.
沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。
3. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can’t have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。
8. Don’t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。
10. Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。
11. There’s always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you. 在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。
13. Don’t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。
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Being happy is the priority of living,
If u wanna be sad,be sad 4 something that’s worth it.
珍惜你所擁有的，慶幸所曾發生的。
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Good fren r hard2 find, harder2 leave, n impossible 2 4get. U can only go x far x u push!
A best fren is like a 4 leaf clover, hard2 find n lucky2 hav.
Some ppl make the world special by juz being in it. Best frens r the siblings God 4got 2giv us…
When it hurts 2look back, n ur scared 2look ahead, u can look bside u n yr best fren will b there…
True friendship never ends.
Good frens r like stars…u dun always c them, but u know they r always there. Dont frown, u nvr noe who is falling in luv wiv yr smile.
Most ppl walk in n out of yr life, but only frens leave footprints in yr heart.
To realize
~ the value of a sister
Ask sumone who doesnt hav 1…
~ the value of 10 yrs
Ask a newly divorced couple…
~ the value of 1 yr
Ask a student who has failed a final exam…
~ the value of 9 mths
Ask a mum who gav birth 2a stil born…
~ the value of 1 week
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper…
~ the value of 1 hr
Ask the lovers who r waiting 2meet…
~ the value of 1 min
Ask a person who has missed the plane…
~ the value of 1 sec
Ask a person who has survived an accident…
~ the value of 1 milisec
Ask the person who has won a silver medals in Olympics…
To realize the value of a FRIEND
when u lose one….
Time waits for NO one!!
Treasure every moment u hav.U’ll treasure it even more when u can share it with someone special…
No one is ever happy with they have,
although we may all aspire to have that kind of tranquility.
Love, like life, is never static. It’s full of unexpected events that you have to deal with as the need arises.
You only want the love you can’t get;
once you get it, you don’t want it anymore.
Just as chips from someone else’s plate
always taste so much better than when you order your own.
The hardest thing to do is watching the one you love, love somebody else.
If u love something…let it go.
If it comes back to you it’s yours…
If it doesn’t then it never was!!
Don’t let the past hold you back, you’re missing the good stuff. Life is short. If you don’t look around once in a while you might miss it……
A kiss is just a kiss until u find the one you love.
A hug is just a hug until its from the one you’re thinking of.
A dream is just a dream until you make it come true.
LOVE is just a word until its proven to you.
Change has a bad reputation in our society. But it isn’t all bad. In fact, change is necessary to keep us moving, to keep us growing, to keep us interested in life.
It is good to realize something isn’t working in your life and it’s great to identify what that is and the pain it causes you. But if you stop with the awareness and don’t follow through with any action, you will stay stuck in the pain.
Fear is a powerful beast. It can significantly hamper your ability to risk effectively.
Finally, the changes are a part of your life. You realize you’re happy about the changes you have made. You are enjoying your new life takes a turn for the better.
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